- Apr 12 2025
- By Bamidele Matthew
From Chaos to Calm: How to Actually Enjoy Organizing
You know that feeling when you open a perfectly organized drawer? The satisfying alignment of utensils, the neat compartments, and the way everything clicks into place? That’s not just order—that’s mental peace.
But here’s the secret: Organization doesn’t have to mean color-coded labels or Instagram-perfect pantries. It’s about creating systems that work for your brain. Here’s how to transform organizing from a chore into a ritual you might even… gasp… look forward to.
1. The 5-Minute “Victory Lap” Method
- Start with one tiny, visible win (e.g., your silverware tray).
- Set a timer for 5 minutes—long enough to see progress, not to dread it.
- Admire your work (seriously, take a mental snapshot of that tidy spot).
Pro Tip: Pair it with your favorite podcast or playlist to build a “reward” loop.
2. The “Why Can’t I Just Put Things Away?” Fix
Most systems fail because they fight human nature.
Junk Drawer Syndrome: If everything has a perfect spot, your brain rebels.
The Fix:
- Designate “transition zones” (a bowl for keys, a hook for bags).
- Use open bins instead of lids—every extra step cuts follow-through by 30%.
3. The Marie Kondo Twist (For People Who Hate Folding)
- Keep only what you actually use (not just what “sparks joy”).
- “Lazy folding”: roll your T-shirts—20% faster, 50% less collapsing.
- Allow one “fun” item guilt-free.
4. How to Make Organizing Feel Like Self-Care
- Light a candle or diffuse a scent only while tidying.
- Wear your “tidying clothes” (comfy pants + feel-good playlist).
- Reward yourself with a treat.
- Snap a before/after photo—dopamine hit guaranteed.
5. When to Call Reinforcements
- You’ve reorganized the same spot three times with no luck.
- Just thinking about it makes your chest tighten.
- You’re holding on to “just in case” items you’ll never use.
Sometimes the kindest thing is to outsource the stress. Our Peace-of-Mind sessions build real-life systems—not Pinterest fantasies.