• Apr 12 2025
  • By Bamidele Matthew

From Chaos to Calm: How to Actually Enjoy Organizing

You know that feeling when you open a perfectly organized drawer? The satisfying alignment of utensils, the neat compartments, and the way everything clicks into place? That’s not just order—that’s mental peace.

But here’s the secret: Organization doesn’t have to mean color-coded labels or Instagram-perfect pantries. It’s about creating systems that work for your brain. Here’s how to transform organizing from a chore into a ritual you might even… gasp… look forward to.

1. The 5-Minute “Victory Lap” Method

  • Start with one tiny, visible win (e.g., your silverware tray).
  • Set a timer for 5 minutes—long enough to see progress, not to dread it.
  • Admire your work (seriously, take a mental snapshot of that tidy spot).

Pro Tip: Pair it with your favorite podcast or playlist to build a “reward” loop.

2. The “Why Can’t I Just Put Things Away?” Fix

Most systems fail because they fight human nature.

Junk Drawer Syndrome: If everything has a perfect spot, your brain rebels.

The Fix:

  • Designate “transition zones” (a bowl for keys, a hook for bags).
  • Use open bins instead of lids—every extra step cuts follow-through by 30%.

3. The Marie Kondo Twist (For People Who Hate Folding)

  • Keep only what you actually use (not just what “sparks joy”).
  • “Lazy folding”: roll your T-shirts—20% faster, 50% less collapsing.
  • Allow one “fun” item guilt-free.

4. How to Make Organizing Feel Like Self-Care

  • Light a candle or diffuse a scent only while tidying.
  • Wear your “tidying clothes” (comfy pants + feel-good playlist).
  • Reward yourself with a treat.
  • Snap a before/after photo—dopamine hit guaranteed.

5. When to Call Reinforcements

  • You’ve reorganized the same spot three times with no luck.
  • Just thinking about it makes your chest tighten.
  • You’re holding on to “just in case” items you’ll never use.

Sometimes the kindest thing is to outsource the stress. Our Peace-of-Mind sessions build real-life systems—not Pinterest fantasies.